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"All your life you are told the things you cannot do.  All your life they will say you're not good enough or strong enough or talented enough.  They'll say you're the wrong height or wrong weight or the wrong type to play this or be this or achieve this. They will tell you NO, a thousand times NO, until the NOs become meaningless.  All your life they will tell you NO, quite firmly and very quickly. They will tell you NO, and you will tell them YES! YES!! YES!!!"  _Anonymous.

"Capital flows toward those who have a mindset that there is an abundance of capital around them.  Think big.  Do not operate out of fear, bitterness, or distrust. Think abundance and you will have abundance."

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DREAMS DELIVERED

We are the leaders we looked up to when we were 12. We are the children of the civil war who vowed to revamp Nigeria when we grew up.  We said we would stay away from corruption and corruptible practices; we would love one another irrespective of tribal origin..  We are school  children of the 70s that lined the streets of our home town, in my case Benin City, to welcome Yakubu Gowon. We believed in the dream of a prosperous one Nigeria with equal access to good education for everyone.  We are the young men of the 80s who saw the excesses and incompetence of Shehu Shagari, Umaru Dikko and his cohorts.  We said Nigeria deserved competent leadership devoid  of ostentatious waste of national resources.  We said we would not be manipulated by the constant psychopathic sycophancy from the general populace.  We are the young men and women of the 90s that saw the graft and direct looting of the treasury by Abacha and his inner circle.  We promised NEVER AGAIN.  The question now is: Are we the dreams we dreamt about?  Have we become part of the problem by our actions, inaction or simple acquiescence?  

Under the United States form of government, on ascension to power of any president, at intervals of time, the performance of the president is measured against his stated objectives and goals.  Whether it is talking about the bailout of insolvent banks, financial reform, health reform, the people want to know how far along the president is moving.  Nigeria cannot be an exception.  Goodluck Jonathan has promised dependable electricity supply.  Jonathan cannot be given a free pass.  He must be held to task.  How well is he doing compared to his stated objectives at the beginning of his presidency?

 

NIGERIA OF OUR DREAMS

I dream of a Nigeria where military coups are forever banished.  I dream of a Nigeria where our economy is diversified and we are not entirely dependent on oil for foreign exchange.

Over the years, as I travel around the world, as I meet Nigerians, I see a yearning, a deep wounded yearning for an economic emancipation of all Nigerians; a deep weary yearning for a government that actually governs; a deep painful yearning for schools that actually teach, for safe roads you can travel on, for electricity supply you can depend on. I feel a tenacious yearning for peace, unity and prosperity of the whole nation; a yearning for all the ethnic groups to come together and see each other as one.  I dream of a day when these yearnings will come true.  Do you hear me?


BABANGIDA, RAY EKPU AND INTIMIDATION

Autocratic regimes, whether military or otherwise, operate  mostly on fear and intimidation.  They do not have widely accepted rationale for government.  The little people are bullied into submission.  Democracy on the other hand exists based on the consent of the governed.  In Nigeria   the bullying has to stop. Those who are insisting on rotation within the PDP would like us to believe that Nigeria will disintegrate if their unconstitutional arrangement is not upheld. Nonsense!! What will save Nigeria is free and fair elections, transparency in government, dedication to put the interests of the common man first and above individual political and financial ambitions.

It is public that Ibrahim Babangida wants to run for president again.  Fine, he has every right as a citizen to run. But analyze this:  the looting of a nation by the military and elected officials, the squandering of the people's wealth, the near breakdown of national institutions, the epileptic nature of our power supply, the dilapidated state of our roads, the directionless youths, the kidnapping of country's political machinery by a cabal. Babangida has been in the thick of it  There are still unanswered questions surrounding Dele Giwa's murder by parcel bomb which happened while IBB was in power. 

It will be an act of cowardice if Goodluck Jonathan does not run for the presidency in 2011. 

Ray Ekpu and Dele Giwa always wrote  about a paradigm shift. I never really knew what they met. But today, in Nigerian's governance, yes there has been a paradigm shift, a new order, if you like.  Military coups and autocratic hegemony always consisted of seizing the means of communication by force, mainly Radio Nigeria and the TV broadcasting stations.  It was easy. My friends, this is a new day. The internet has led to the democratization of the means of communications. Military coup planners and aspiring dictators be forewarned, Nigeria and Nigerians of today, have the tools at their disposal to organize, mobilize, and protect the budding democracy. 


                    

                    Nigeria at a Crossroads

To say Nigeria is a blessed country is to state the obvious. To say there is scarcity and hunger in the midst of abundance is equally true.  Abundant natural resources, abundant oil but scarce petrol.  The delivery of the resources has been hijacked  by a band of cabals who do not have the best interest of Nigeria at heart. There is a mad rush for self-enrichment through state apparatus.  That explains the decaying infrastructure, the bad roads, the death-trap that is the Lagos-Benin expressway; that explains the fraud at the polls; that explains the conspiracy at the PDP for a rotational presidency when we should be asking for the best whoever the best is. 

If there is such agreement of rotational presidency  within the PDP, let that be their agreement.  It cannot be binding on the rest of us.  We want the best man for the job.  We want someone with enough personality to maintain national cohesion, bringing the Nigerian disparate ethnic parts together. If PDP's mission is to maintain a stranglehold on Nigeria's political and economic life, then every effort has to be made to untie that stranglehold. New viable, alternative parties have to be supported or created.  If Babangida wants to run, let him run.  The question is: What substantive contribution did he make the last time he ran the country?

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The notion that Goodluck Jonathan should not run for the presidency in 2011 is vexing, just as the decision to ban the national football team from international games for two years was misdirected.  I am glad that Jonathan reversed himself on that. The Niger-Delta has carried the country on its back by way of oil for the past 50 years. To even suggest that a son of the region should not run for the presidency on his own right, for whatever reason, is ludicrous and unacceptable. Let the polls decide who should be the next president.


The issues for Goodluck Jonathan in Nigeria 

There is no doubt that President Jonathan has good intentions, but good intentions are not good enough.  We want results.  There has to be a massive mobilization of the Nigerian populace to achieve the objective. This is a crisis situation, and the response should be in a magnitude that a crisis deserves. Jonathan will have to use every available air wave to drive his  message home.  His administration is going to have to contend with a mentality that says it is okay to tamper with the electric meter. It is not okay. Jonathan will have to reverse the pervasive idea that electricity should be free.  No, it cannot be free.  You use it, you pay for it.  

The magnitude of problems facing Nigeria demands a magna response. Can Goodluck Jonathan deliver? Read Nigeria under Goodluck Jonathan in Era of Discontent


Good Government In Nigeria 

In the final analysis, government is about creating opportunities to the people to fulfill themselves; it's about creating an environment for the citizens to  live up to their fullest potentials and contribute to society.  Government is about creating jobs.  As Goodluck Jonathan assumes the office of acting president, he should be cognizant of the fact that Nigerians, especially the young, look for more educational opportunities, job opportunities, and need  a government that supports and encourages small business.  Good luck to you.

Jonathan's first task, in my opinion is to re-affirm once again, by words and deeds, our belief in the democratic system, articulate a new path forward for Africa's most populous nation, in effect, establish a vision for the country.  Where does he want to take Nigeria?  There is a new crop of Nigerians, a new breed of leaders, yearning  and looking forward to transparency in our national affairs. 

 

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Nigeria's Earthquake

If there was to be an "earthquake," a monumental challenge, or disaster, whether natural, economic or political, will Nigeria be ready? What would we show the world? Our shanty towns like Maroko, our decaying school system, our neglected highways like Lagos-Benin Road, our corruption and mistrust of one another? Tell me  Read more about Nigeria's Earthquake

Self-doubt, that self-disqualifying mentality is the greatest obstacle to personal success and achievement. Suddenly, Saul believed and embraced the Living God.  Was it that sudden or was his the case of protracted denial? Read on 

  • Where are you? Are you lost in the wilderness?  There is a sure way to finding yourself. Read
  • "Growing up in the sixties in Benin City, Nigeria - a tale of promise denied."  Read

 

 

 

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I tried, a poem by Mary Rambow, is simple yet  touching and powerful

In his latest writing, Pastor Endurance Izevbizua asserts what it takes to achieve a higher level of success and happiness through Higher Power. Read it now It is about bringing higher power to bear on your situation.

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Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine as children do. It's not just in some of us; it is in everyone. And as we let our own lights shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.-

From Coach Carter, as written by Mark Schwahn and John Gatins 

 


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